Ever heard of…and they lived happily ever after. Yea you I know u heard! Do you think those things happen in real life? In relationships? In marriages? NOPE! THEY DON’T!  :) I hope I didn’t wipe the smile across your face. They exist but only in fairy tales. Real life, get in the groove, nothing like that exists…trust me even with Romeo and Juliet, your mum and your dad, your granny and grumpy, your uncle and aunt… and the same with your boyfriend or girlfriend.

                         Relationships are a constant battle, the putting away of our vast differences some call it. I would say the reconciling of those differences. I was brought up differently, you were raised differently. When we love each other so much to be together or just as friends, I have sides you wouldn’t like and you have those I wouldn’t too but appreciating those differences makes our relationship long lasting.

                          Sometimes we would fight over those differences; let’s do it this way, let’s do it that way; let’s go this way, let’s go that way; let’s buy this, let’s buy that. How would you stop making those divisions come? Let me amuse you, you can’t! Those divisions happen, your momma didn’t raise all of us the same, and even with my siblings we are not all the same then imagine your large number of friends. 

                         Most of you know if you’ve been following this blog that I find it hard to get angry. I find it hard, but it doesn’t mean I don’t.  Sometimes I quarrel with my girlfriend, the lovely Vida…prefer to call her Nana…and where was I. Yeah I said we quarrel not so often on things I call petty but guess what those petty things are those that generate into I can’t do this no more…let’s break up..I can’t go on with… People! It doesn’t have to always end up in that and don’t you think your boyfriend or girlfriend will always break up with you because he or she found another person (anyways that’s besides the issue here).  :P  

                Nana and I did something. I don’t know if she still remembers that she said it. Listen to this people! Yoooooo don’t rush me… relax. :) we agreed that even if we quarreled or we fought it wouldn’t go past a day. By the stroke of midnight we would have probably talked and settled everything. Then sometimes you come and sit down and realize all that we quarreled about was too insignificant. BUT MIND YOU PETTY THINGS BECOME GREAT TROUBLES IF YOU DON’T SETTLE THEM EARLY. NEVER QUARREL OF FIGHT PAST A DAY.  I wish you all the best in your relationship, marriage, etc…

Note: the title is a fist of words…Never fight someone with your fists. Always use words, it’s safer: P